Lies: 70 Things Every Man Needs to Know
Excerpted from Pastoring Men, Moody Publishers.
When we receive Christ we become bilingual. We learn a second language–the language of truth. But what happens to anyone who doesn’t regularly practice speaking their second language? They revert to their native tongue.
If we do not abide in Christ day by day, if we do not regularly practice our second language, we will revert to our native tongue. You know this is true because you know self-deceived Christians who regularly lie to you–and not about little things.
How do men fall back into their native language? Every morning your men go into a world where all day long they are tempted to exchange “the truth of God for a lie” (Romans 1:25).
All men either live by the truth or by a good lie. No man, Christian or otherwise, will choose to live by an obvious lie. Which counterfeit dollar bill is most likely to make it into circulation? It’s the one that looks like the real thing. In
the same way, the only lies that make it into circulation are ones that appear to be true. A good lie is probably only one or two degrees off course. Otherwise it would be rejected. The prosperity gospel comes to mind.
What does a good lie look like? A good lie can take many forms. For example, good lies about happiness might tell men that to be happy they need to… make this much money . . . get that promotion . . . drive a certain car.
With false messages blaring from a thousand cell towers, TV antennas, newspapers, and even friends, the “father of lies” wants men to believe that God isn’t capable of giving men true joy and contentment. As a discipler of men, it’s good to remember that for every truth you tell your men, they are hearing hundreds of lies–many of them good lies–throughout the week.
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