Just like life has its cycles and seasons, the ministry world has its own cycles as well. The end-of-year “season” is full of joy at the celebration of Christ’s birth. Jesus’ birth, life, death, and resurrection is the fulcrum of our faith and practice.
This time also prompts reflection on a year of men reached, churches strengthened, leaders encouraged. Every year has its highlights and this year is no different. Seeing intergenerational men’s discipleship happen through the Spiritual Fathers program inspires hope at a time when young men need it most!
It is also a time when many ministries and nonprofits anticipate–and frankly, need–a bump in giving from generous and faithful partners. If you normally give to ministries and charities, your Inbox is likely full of requests for special gifts and projects. Some ministries raise as much as 40% of their annual donations in December! (At Man in the Mirror, it’s closer to a quarter, but that’s still a big proportion.)
As you are considering how the Lord has blessed you this year, you are likely considering the way you can be a great steward of the resources He has provided. You want to make an impact with your giving, and we do too.
First of all, let me say this: please be sure to remember your local church first. The faith community you are a part of needs the support of its community members in order to do the work the Lord has called the church to do. And it is important work. (Acts 20:28)
Investing in Men, Changing the World
Second, I would invite you to invest in changing men’s lives. I believe that from a Kingdom standpoint, men’s discipleship is one of the most crucial and impactful activities that is happening. Why? Because when you invest in a man’s life, the ripple effects are felt in his family, workplace, church, and community.
I say this from personal experience. When I was in my 30s, I was a young, energetic entrepreneur. Caught up in the excitement of building a software company, I became distracted by the world, and almost left my family behind.
An invitation to a men’s group saved me. Studying The Man in the Mirror with a small group of guys helped remove the scales from my eyes. One day my wife said to me, “Do you know how much better of a husband you’ve been since you started going to that group?”
Those guys spoke truth into my life, calling out my selfishness, but also encouraging me to be the man God made me to be. Men’s discipleship saved my marriage and my family.
And here I am, 25 years later, sitting in the president’s office of a ministry that I didn’t even know existed when I joined the group. God is gracious.
We hear stories like this at Man in the Mirror all the time. Some don’t end so well. Some men lose their way, and by the time they realize it, they’ve ruined a marriage, alienated their kids, and even walked away from their faith.
As Pat Morley has often said, Man in the Mirror exists at least in part due to the prayers of frustrated wives and hurting children. We exist to counteract the pull of the world, the flesh, and the devil on the minds and hearts of men.
It’s this vision that fuels the mission of Man in the Mirror. Every dollar given to this ministry is more than a donation—it’s an investment in shaping men of faith who, in turn, shape their families, churches, and communities for generations. You’re not giving money; you’re helping to build a legacy that echoes into eternity.
When you support Man in the Mirror, you’re enabling a movement that trains and equips men to live out their faith authentically. Our resources and programs are designed to empower church leaders, develop mentorship initiatives, and foster deep, Christ-centered friendships among men. Think about this: every transformed man becomes a father, husband, colleague, or neighbor who impacts countless other lives.
In 2 Timothy 2:2, Paul writes, “And the things you have heard me say in the presence of many witnesses entrust to reliable people who will also be qualified to teach others.” This is the heart of what we do. Man in the Mirror doesn’t just focus on one man’s spiritual growth; we equip men who can lead, teach, and mentor others, creating a multiplying effect of discipleship and faith.
How Your Gift Makes a Difference
So, where does your support go? It helps fund critical initiatives, like the No Man Left Behind training that equips churches to create vibrant men’s ministries tailored to their specific communities. It supports Area Directors who walk alongside pastors and men’s leaders, offering mentorship and personalized guidance to ensure their programs thrive. It also fuels Man in the Mirror’s outreach efforts in other countries through ministries designed to reach men globally, breaking down barriers so that no man misses the chance to encounter Christ.
Building Up Leaders Through Mentorship
One of the most powerful ways your donation helps is through mentorship. Our mentoring program–Spiritual Fathers– connects older, experienced believers with younger men seeking guidance. In our experience, having a mentor—someone to pray with, share life with, and seek advice from—is nothing short of transformative.
Imagine the impact when thousands of men are strengthened by similar connections, each becoming a beacon of light in their spheres of influence. Man in the Mirror’s resources, like their small group studies and discipleship pathways, make these connections possible. By giving, you’re ensuring these life-changing opportunities continue to grow and reach men in every community.
We hope knowing your contributions go toward programs like these brings you a deep sense of purpose. As Proverbs 13:22 says, “A good person leaves an inheritance for their children’s children.” This inheritance isn’t just about financial wealth; it’s about leaving behind a legacy of faith, integrity, and Christ-centered living. When we invest in the growth of godly men today, we’re planting seeds that bear fruit in future generations.
A Call to Action
If you’ve ever felt that pull to leave a lasting mark—to create something that continues growing beyond your lifetime—consider supporting this mission. Your gift, no matter the size, is tax-deductible and goes directly toward building stronger men, stronger families, and more vital churches. This is about more than money; it’s about transformation, impact, and living out our faith together.
We encourage you to explore how you can be part of this legacy. Visit Man in the Mirror’s website to learn more about how your contributions support vital programs, build up men’s ministries, and make a lasting difference. Whether through planned giving, one-time donations, or consistent support, every gift counts. Together, let’s shape future generations of men who stand firm in their faith, lead with integrity, and bring Christ’s light to every corner of the world.
This is how we build a legacy—together.
