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Coyote Killing and the Lost Art of Masculine Patience
By nature, women are often celebrated as the patient ones. They endure, they nurture, they weather storms of frustration with a quiet resilience that men, in our louder moments, might envy. Road rage, barroom brawls, or the dramatic fling of a golf club into a...
How to Live with a Soul at Rest
Then Jesus said, “Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you. Let me teach you, because I am humble and gentle at heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy to...
From Doubt to Faith: A Man’s Journey Through the Thomas Dilemma
I used to think I had it all figured out. Growing up in a mad city, I was the "good kid.” I never missed church, followed all the rules, checked all the boxes. I believed if I just did everything right, I'd be safe from most of life's storms. My faith was a shield, or...
The Truth About Lying
We can usually always admit that we were dumb as kids. In my case, I had a habit of doing something wrong and then completely denying my actions. In one case, my mother began to keep lemon candy in her purse, which she would distribute in small numbers during...
Shame and Spiritual Chemotherapy
Maybe you haven’t had the delightful experience of waking in a heart-thumping panic, certain that you had just found yourself in a public space wearing little to no clothing. If you have, then you know I’m not being sarcastic when I call this a delightful experience....
When Dad’s Not There: How to Heal from the Loss or Absence of Your Father
Some wounds don’t heal on their own. They linger, deep and invisible, like a hollow spot in your chest that you don’t know how to fill. For many men, that’s what happens when their father is absent—whether he passed too soon, checked out emotionally, or just wasn’t...
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How to Not Be a Judgmental Jerk
Every era has its own moral signature, a set of phrases that capture the spirit of the age. In ours, few maxims are wielded with more confidence and finality than “Do not judge.” But Jesus said, ‘Do not judge.’ It’s literally the one thing everyone knows he said. But...
Why the Manosphere Appeals to Young Men
Stand at the crossroads and look; ask for the ancient paths, ask where the good way is, and walk in it, and you will find rest for your souls. -Jeremiah 6:16 Young men sit alone a lot these days, usually bathed in the blue glow of their phones. Their faces are blank,...
Parenting Between the Pictures: How Parenting is Mostly the Boring Stuff
Have you ever caught yourself mid-scroll through Instagram, mesmerized by those glossy family reels? There's the dad hoisting his toddler onto his shoulders at sunset or the mom orchestrating the perfect homeschool breakfast. I typically look up from the screen and...
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Thanksgiving in Our Weakness
As we approach Thanksgiving and Christmas, we recognize not everyone is leaping into the holidays with strength and good cheer. Some of us are limping. What does it mean, then, when Paul says God’s power is made perfect in weakness?
Dealing With Anger
We often hear that men lack emotion. In our years of experience working with men, nothing could be farther from the truth. There ARE, however, things we can do to be emotionally healthier, and they are intricately connected to dealing with anger.
Spiritual Cardiology
Many men have heart problems of a spiritual nature. In some cases, it’s slow-progressing disease, while for others, the need for heart surgery is urgent. In my 20s, I was one of these men who desperately needed the core affections of his heart changed.
Boldly Growing: Awareness, Ownership, HOPE
As I reflect on the past two months of launching the beta test for Spiritual Fathers, what I’ve observed has me dreaming about what God is going to do through Christian men who are boldly growing in awareness, ownership, and hope—and how it impacts us all.
Discipleship Is Relationship
Today, young men are a click away from the best sermons, podcasts, and commentaries in the world. But what’s harder to find are the authentic relationships that provide fertile soil for real growth and change. If you’re an older man, you can change that.
Boundaries in Discipleship
We don’t often talk about setting boundaries in discipleship relationships. At first glance, the concept may seem foreign or even uncharitable. But if we want to build meaningful relationships that last and bear fruit, good boundaries are essential.
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