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1. Abiding in Christ

• How to Walk in the Spirit

2. Accountability

• “How to have an Accountable Relationship”
• Order Accountability Cards
• Watch the Man in the Mirror Bible Study titled, “Accountability: The Missing Link”
• “Accountabiity: The Missing Link” – contained in the book The Man in the Mirror

3. Anger

• See chapter 18, “Anger” in The Man in the Mirror (click to purchase)
• Watch the Man in the Mirror Bible Study titled, “Anger”

4. Balance

• See chapter 3, “How Happy Do You have to Be?” in The Ten Secrets for the Man in the Mirror (click to purchase)
• See chapter 16, “Setting Priorities ” in The Man in the Mirror (click to purchase)
• Watch the Man in the Mirror Bible Study titled, “Life Balance – How To Be Faithful With Everything Entrusted To Me”

7. Calling

• Read “12 Suggestions To Discover Your Calling”
• Read “How to Discover Your Design”
• See chapter 24, “How Can A Man Change?” in The Man in the Mirror (click to purchase)
• Watch the Man in the Mirror Bible Study titled, “How Can A Man Change?”

8. Change

• See also “Growth”
• See chapter 24, “How Can A Man Change?” in The Man in the Mirror (click to purchase)
• Watch the Man in the Mirror Bible Study titled, “How Can A Man Change? “

9. Character of God

• Watch the Man in the Mirror Bible Study series “Jesus Unfiltered”

13. Cultural Christianity

• Watch the Man in the Mirror Bible Study titled, “Biblical Christian or Cultural Christian?”
• See chapter 3, “Biblical Christian or Cultural Christian?” in The Man in the Mirror (click to purchase)
• Watch the Man in the Mirror Bible Study titled, “Becoming Lukewarm”

16. Decision Making

• Watch the Man in the Mirror Bible Study titled, “Decisions: How to Make the Right Choice”
• See chapter 13, “Decisions: How to Make the Right Choice” in The Man in the Mirror (click to purchase)

18. Disciplines, Spiritual

• Watch the Man in the Mirror Bible Study series “6 Habits of Spiritually Happy Men”
• Read the book A Man’s Guide to the Spiritual Disciplines (click to purchase)
• Read the article “A Man’s Guide to the Spiritual Disciplines”

23. Fathering

• Watch the Man in the Mirror Bible Study series “Twelve Tasks of an Effective Father “
• Watch the Man in the Mirror Bible Study titled, “Children: How to Avoid Regrets”
• Read the article “The Goal of a Father”

24. Fear

• Watch the Man in the Mirror Bible Study titled, “Fear”
• See chapter 17, “Decisions: How to Make the Right Choice” in The Man in the Mirror (click to purchase)

25. Friendships

• Watch the Man in the Mirror Bible Study titled, “Friends: Risks and Rewards”
• See chapter 10, “Friends: Risks and Rewards” in The Man in the Mirror (click to purchase)

28. The Gospel

• Read the article “How to Lead a Man to Christ ”

30. The Great Commission

• Watch the Man in the Mirror Bible Study series “Discipling Men’s Hearts”

31. Growth

• Watch the Man in the Mirror Bible Study series “Six Habits of Spiritually Happy Men”

35. Integrity

• Watch the Man in the Mirror Bible Study titled, “Integrity: What’s the Price?”
• Watch the Man in the Mirror Bible Study titled, “Leading a Secret Thought Life”

36. Jesus

• Watch the Man in the Mirror Bible Study series “Hanging out with Jesus”
• Read the book A Man’s Guide to Spiritual Disciplines (click to purchase)

38. Lordship

• Read the book Ten Secrets for The Man in the Mirror (click to purchase)

39. Loving God

• See chapter 13, “The Most Important Thing” in Discipleship for The Man in the Mirror (click to purchase)

40. Loving People

• Watch the Man in the Mirror Bible Study titled, “Broken Relationships”
• Read chapter 7, “Broken Relationships ” in The Man in the Mirror (click to purchase)
• Read the article “How to Get Along with Difficult People”

41. Man, Doctrine of

• Watch the Man in the Mirror Bible Study series “Journey to Biblical Manhood”

42. Manhood

• Watch the Man in the Mirror Bible Study series “Journey to Biblical Manhood”

43. Marriage

• Read the book Devotions for Couples (click to purchase)
• Read the book The Marriage Prayer (click to purchase)

44. Money and Possessions

• Read the chapter 6, “Do What You Don’t Want to Do and Become What You Want to Be” in the book Ten Secrets for The Man in the Mirror (click to purchase)
• Read the article “Money and Possessions”
• Read the article “How to Get Out of Debt”

47. Pride

• Watch the Man in the Mirror Bible Study titled, “Pride”
• Read chapter 16, “Pride” in The Man in the Mirror (click to purchase)

48. Priorities

• Watch the Man in the Mirror Bible Study titled, “Priorities: How to Decide What’s Important ”
• Read chapter 14, “Priorities: How to Decide What’s Important” in The Man in the Mirror (click to purchase)

49. Private Devotions

• Read the article “How to Have a Consistent Quiet Time”

50. Purpose and Meaning

• Watch the Man in the Mirror Bible Study titled, “Significance: The Search for Meaning and Purpose”
• Watch the Man in the Mirror Bible Study titled, “Purpose: Why Do I Exist? ”
• Read chapter 4, “Significance: The Search for Meaning and Purpose” in The Man in the Mirror (click to purchase)
• Read chapter 5, “Purpose: Why Do I Exist?” in The Man in the Mirror (click to purchase)
• Read the article “How to Develop a Written Life Purpose Statement”

51. The Rat Race

• Watch the Man in the Mirror Bible Study titled, “The Rat Race”
• Read chapter 1, “The Rat Race ” in The Man in the Mirror (click to purchase)

54. Sabbath

• Read chapter 5, “A Man and the Sabbath” in the book A Man’s Guide to the Spiritual Disciplines (click to purchase)

55. Service

• See chapter 18, “Developing a Personal Ministry ” in Discipleship for The Man in the Mirror (click to purchase)

56. Sex

• Watch the Man in the Mirror Bible Study series “Sex and the Man in the Mirror”
• Download the free book What Husbands Wish Their Wives Knew About Men

57. Small Groups

• Read the article “How to Lead a Weekly Men’s Small Group”
• Read the article “How To Build a Men’s Ministry Around Relationships & Small Groups (Even Where There Is No Support)”
• Read the article “Approaches to Build a Successful Small Group”

58. Spiritual Gifts

• See chapter 18, “Developing a Personal Ministry ” in Discipleship for The Man in the Mirror (click to purchase)
• Read the article “How to Determine Your Spiritual Gifts”

59. Spiritual Warfare

• See chapter 9, “Spiritual Warfare” in the book A Man’s Guide to the Spiritual Disciplines (click to purchase)
• Read chapter 22, “Leading a Secret Thought Life” in The Man in the Mirror (click to purchase)
• Read chapter 14, “Your Secret Thought Life” in The Young Man in the Mirror (click to purchase)
• Watch the Man in the Mirror Bible Study titled, “Leading a Secret Thought Life”
• Read the article “How to Conquer a Secret Thought Life”

60. Stewardship

• Read part 3, “Solving Our Money Problems” in The Man in the Mirror (click to purchase)
• Read chapter 6 in the book Ten Secrets for The Man in the Mirror (click to purchase)

62. Success That Matters

• See part 7, “The Season of Success” in Seven Seasons of The Man in the Mirror (click to purchase)
• Watch the Man in the Mirror Bible Study series “Success and the Man in the Mirror”

63. Suffering

• See part 6, “The Season of Suffering” in Seven Seasons of The Man in the Mirror (click to purchase)
• Watch the Man in the Mirror Bible Study titled, “Avoiding Suffering”

64. Time Management

• Watch the Man in the Mirror Bible Study titled, “Time Management: Doing God’s Will”
• Read chapter 15, “Time Management: Doing God’s Will” in The Man in the Mirror (click to purchase)

65. Unexamined Life

• Watch the Man in the Mirror Bible Study titled, “Leading an Unexamined Life”
• Read chapter 2, “Leading an Unexamined Life” in The Man in the Mirror (click to purchase)
• Read the article “How to Conquer a Secret Thought Life”

66. Witnessing

• Read the article “How to Lead a Man to Christ”
• Read the article “How to Lead an Executive to Christ”
• Read the article “How to Talk about Jesus without Sounding Like a Nut”
• Read the article “Reach 3 Strategy: An Engaging Offer of Christ for Every Man”

67. Work

• Watch the Man in the Mirror Bible Study titled, s in the “Doing Business God’s Way ” bible study series
• Read the chapter 4, “Not Happy Here, Not Happy Anywhere” in the book Ten Secrets for The Man in the Mirror (click to purchase)
• Read chapter 6, “The Secret of Job Contentment” in The Man in the Mirror (click to purchase)
• Read the article “How to Build a Ministry through Your Work”
• Read the article “Interview for a Job”

69. Worldview, Christian

• Watch the Man in the Mirror Bible Study titled, “Biblical Christian or Cultural Christian”

70. Worship

• Watch the Man in the Mirror Bible Study titled, “To Worship With All Your Might“